My
Aditi
An
interaction that started in a cacophonous virtual room mostly inhabited by
myriads of superficially charged gregarious humans most of whom have celebrated
not less than 20 birthdays, has now taken center stage. Two matured humans
engrossed on each other, both eager to get a glimpse on the other virtually
shattering the screens on their phones/laptops. Each moment of each day goes
into peeling the layers of each other in an utter quest to unravel the unknown,
to quench the thirst, to visualize what’s not visible, to realize the common
chord, to respect the abilities and accomplishments, so much so that time flies
and the intoxication keeps both charged.
Human
beings are more hard wired with each other in person rather virtually. But here
comes a chemistry proving all litmus tests positive and attracting each other
and pheromone secretion goes unabated.
The
chemistry kindles the thought of a togetherness and solidarity more like a
juvenile exuberance vibrating with a pulsating resonance more akin to birds of
the same feather. The chirping goes on and on and the buds of an inseparable
intimate bond have germinated.
Don’t
know where this germination will go, don’t know where it leads to.. The dilemma
has started haunting. the thought of a possible flash of this relationship can
break the mirror into shattering pieces….A scary reality peeps inside. You said
“ Lets quit” with a logic that’s practical. But I don’t know what to do, where
this leads to.
The
pain in quitting is too repulsive to accept. You said the sorrow fades away
with gradients of time. You said may be a month and then things become normal.
I am not sure about this. Don’t know if it fades away . Definitely time heals
but feelings never fades.
When
things occur seemingly outside of our control, we get frustrated, angry,
impatient... My dear Aditi, see it as a lesson… for example If you usually get
impatient in a queue , remind yourself there's no real hurry and the hurry
fades away. Just give yourself a few minutes to relax and observe the scenes
around you, have few deep breaths and realize the realities.
I
leave it to you and accept what is your final decision. My acceptance to your
quit word is out of respect and love and not out of frustration. You once said
love means responsibility… right? Yes you are correct it does carry
responsibility. I would take responsibility for the sorrow of parting but thy
soul will always love you …. a love that won’t harm you forever, a love
that will forever protect you, a love that will pray for your safety and peace.
Listen when you pray, someone listens… My prayers for your wellbeing will
always be there. I expect no sympathy to what I write as I know what I am
writing is exactly what you think. We are absolutely at sync….. Am I sounding
poetic? Maybe yes but that’s me and that’s what I am . I tend to write and
write and write at times . Please don’t get upset. We are together in soul and
remain so
I
have not used a single word that is not in sync with my thoughts… It all that
comes out from my heart. Don’t get me wrong please.. I accept you as you are.
No ego, no clash, only love.
I
am getting restless but will handle it.
Remain
yours
Adi